My pal constantly picks bad, abusive, cheating dudes.

My pal constantly picks bad, abusive, cheating dudes.

Q: my pal of several years has over repeatedly gotten into relationships with “bad” males.

They cheated during alcohol binges, and physically and/or emotionally abused the girl on her, were nasty to her.

She’d swear that she’ll “never make that mistake once again.” Months later she’ll have met “the many wonderful, loving man” . etc.

She never ever learns. Soon she’s ranting about this man, too.

My friend’s 39. She’s clever at technology and quickly navigated internet dating in the beginning. She’s swift at enticing a man to fulfill her.

She keeps landing in the same miserable situation of being cast aside by someone who’s been playing elsewhere all along whether it’s a hookup or a hot sexual connection.

I’ve known her since we had been young ones. We worry about her. How do I help my friend get free from this rut that always has her winding up hurting and angry? Continue reading “My pal constantly picks bad, abusive, cheating dudes.”